What do women want from their partner for their birthday, Christmas, or anniversary? This question poses a challenge for many men. Most wome...
What do women want from their partner for their birthday, Christmas, or anniversary? This question poses a challenge for many men. Most women just want a surprise that proves that their loved one has thought about it. The anniversary in particular is associated with many emotions. You remember the beginning of the relationship when every thought of the other made those famous butterflies flutter in your stomach. No matter how long you've been together, on the anniversary you reflect on the first date.
The anniversary can sometimes become a problem
It's that time again: The anniversary is approaching and the question arises as to whether your partner has forgotten it again or really thought about it. Some women give subliminal clues weeks in advance to remind their loved ones of the date. Others, on the other hand, deliberately aim to find out how the memory of their loved one is doing. Be that as it may, some men just can't seem to remember the important day. However, the consequences of this are far-reaching: according to a study by the Parship dating platform, 78 percent of the women surveyed would like a present for their anniversary. For men, it was only 59 percent.
The fact that men so often forget the anniversary is partly in their genes. It is wrong to assume that men think and feel the same as women. Men have different priorities in life. In general, men are considered factual, while women are considered emotional. This is shown once again when the partner forgets the anniversary. Many partners feel offended and make a scene. For them, the date has a nostalgic background that is less important for men. Even if it really is the case that the man has forgotten the wedding day, people react differently. Men just brush it off as business as usual, while women sometimes even question the relationship. you assume that love is one-sided or that life together means less to the partner than it used to. Retiring offended is the wrong approach in this case. Rather, it is about making it clear to the other person how important this day is. In this way, it may be possible for the partner not to forget him in the next year and to surprise the partner with one of the following gift ideas:
Perfumes
You can do everything right with perfume, but you can also do a lot wrong. After all, the fragrance should accompany the partner through life and suit her. With perfume, you show that you know your partner inside and out. Chanel perfumes, for example, are true classics that appeal to many women. The famous Chanel No 5 has been inspiring women around the world since 1921. The Chanel brand estimates that a bottle of the classic is sold every 30 seconds around the world. But finding the right perfume is not that easy. Why is that? Here is some important information about the different components:
Perfumes consist of 150 to 250 different substances - no wonder that the choice today is almost endless
A perfume is structured like a pyramid in terms of fragrance
The tip forms the top note, it is perceived first but disappears the fastest
This is followed by the heart note: which shapes the character of the perfume. A floral scent is often noticeable
The foundation is the base note: it unfolds its fragrance after a while and can be perceived for up to 24 hours
Like on the first day
Especially when the anniversary is repeated for the first time, it is a romantic idea to simply reenact the first meeting. You visit exactly those places where you nervously held each other's hands for the first time a year earlier or where you gave your first kiss.
Giving time together
In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, there is usually not enough time for two. Households, jobs, and children take up a large part of the time. Especially if you have already started a family, the conversations often only revolve around problems at school, the defiant phase or puberty of the offspring, or other every day worries. It's often no longer the way it was when you were really interested in the feelings and desires of others at first. But that's exactly what you can revive on the anniversary.
A time-out together can extend over an evening, a weekend, or an entire holiday. You do exactly what you like to do. For one couple it can be a stay in a thermal bath where you can be pampered to your heart's content. Others plan a candlelight dinner in a luxury restaurant. Joint adventures such as a rafting tour or bungee jumping are guaranteed to be remembered forever.
However, the anniversary is about much more than just material things: Telling your partner clearly and unequivocally how much you love them is often the best gift and there is no substitute for it in terms of value.
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